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如何培养男孩

第一、父母要从给到要

first parents should go from giving to receiving

男孩不同于女孩

boys are different from girls

男孩一定要让他多担当

boys must let him take more responsibility

所以父母—定要从给到要

as long as boys can do things in the family

只要是男孩能干的

parents should not extend their hands

父母就不要伸手

parents should not extend their hands

小到自己的事情自己做

from small things to doing their own things

大到为家人奉献和付出

and big ones to devoting in pain for their family

你要明白给的太多那是害他

you have to understand that if you give too much

要的多了那是历练他

and if you want more you will experience him

第二、让男孩多学一些

Second,let boys learn more about hobbies that have strength

有力量、有对抗、有阳刚之气和团队协作的兴趣有团欧协作的兴趣爱好

confrontation masculinity and teamwork

比如篮球、足球、羽毛球

for example basketball taiquando etc

武术、跆拳道等等

for example basketball taiquando etc

从高中开始

from high school onwards

那些在运动场上

boys who sweat on the sports field

挥汗如雨的男生常常最受欢迎

are often the most popular

那种被女生欣赏感觉让他们陶醉不已

get them intoxicated

第三、不要在物质上过度满足男生

3rd don't oversatisty the boy materially

不要让他养成挥霍拜金的坏毛病

and don't let him develop the bad habit of spending money

你要告诉他要想吃好的、用好的

you have to tell him that if you want to eat well

你必领自己有真本事

you must have real skills yourself

爸妈给的再好

no matter how good your parents give you

永远也只是最基本的好

it will always be the most basic

good

第4 要允许男孩犯错误

4, allow boys to make mistakes

你会发现那些

you will

很少犯错误的男生成长也是非常缓慢的,所以说要允许他们犯错误

find that guys who make few mistakes grow very slowly

但是你要告诉他

but you have to tell him that you made a mistake

犯了错误要有勇气承认错误

have the courage to admit your mistake

要敢作敢当,要为你的错误承担后果

and bear the consequences for your mistake

这一点至关重要

this is crucial

第五、如果有条件

5, if you have the conditions

你要加练男孩的领导力

you need to train boys in leadership

你要告诉他在班级里面

you have to tell him that in the class

如果能当班长

if you can be the monitor

就不要当别的班干部,能当干部就不要当组员

don't be the leader of another class

这些在学生时代积累的经验

these experiences accumulated in student days will be

将来都是谋生的技能好

good skills for making a living in the future

策六、有钱没钱都不要让

6, if you have money or not

男孩着到你狼狈不堪的样子

don't let boys see you in a state of embarrassment

你要告诉他大丈夫有泪不经弹

you have to tell him that you don't cry when you cry

有苦不轻言

you have to tell him that you don't cry when you cry

不管到什么时候，都要斗志昂扬、奋发向上

and don't talk lightly when you suffer

第七、不要担心男孩承受委屈

7, don't worry about the boy being wronged

男人的胸怀和格局一定是委屈喂大的

the mind and pattern of a man must be grievanced

所以当男孩承受委屈的时候

so when a boy suffers grievance

你要告诉他承受委屈

you have to tell him

那是从男孩到男人的必经之路

that it is the only way from a boy to man

一点委屈都承受不了

I can't bear any grievancea

将来拿什么顶天立地

what will I do in the future

第八、多让男孩看一些名人传记

let the boy read some celebrity biographies

让他知道

let him know that there is no character

没有哪个人物不是摔摔打出来的

that was not beaten and beaten

正舫谓不经历风雨

as the saying goes

正所谓不经历风雨

how can you see a rainbow without

怎么能够见彩虹

experiencing wind and rain

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