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要让孩子知道与同学相处的四个原则

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一定要告诉孩子跟同学相处的四个原则

Be sure to tell your child the four principles of getting along with your classmates.

第一，不要在背后议论别人

First, don’t talk about others behind your back,

看不惯的事情，可以选择沉默

You can choose to be silent,

不喜欢的人可以和他保持距离

people you don’t like can keep a distance from him,

做好自己就好

just be yourself,

但是一定不要在背后议论别人的是非

but you must not talk about other people’s right and wrongs behind your back,

第二，不要说自己的隐私

The second, don’t say your privacy

如果连你自己都不能保守秘密

if even you can’t keep secrets,

如何让他人替你保守呢？

how to let others keep it for you,

第三，不要刻意讨好别人

Third, don’t deliberately please others,

每个人的认知不同

everyone’s cognition is different,

你做不到让所有的人都喜欢你

You can’t make everyone like you,

更不用刻意地想跟所有人都成为好朋友

let alone deliberately want to be good friends with everyone

那是不可能的

that’s impossible,

因为未来志同道合的人不多

because there are not many like-minded people in the future,

第四就是不计较

The fourth is not to calculate,

不要把自己的时间精力浪费在那些没有意义的事情上

do not waste your time and energy on those meaningless things,

比你强的人都在忙着学习

people who are better than you are busy studying,

没有时间跟你计较

there is no time to worry about you,

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