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怎样才算是清醒地活着

相信我，我活了这么久了

Trust me. I lived a long life.

我的看法是

And in my opinion

20~30岁是人生最难的十年

The worst decade is the 20s

在那段时间里

That's a period when

真的要经历孤独

I can really be lonely

或多或少 会抑郁沮丧

I can really have some depression

我们的大脑 二十五六岁时才发育成熟

Our brains aren't fully developed until we are 25 or 26

我们对自己的认知并不清晰

We really don't know that who we are

这个时期 我们还会做出一些错误的选择

But it's also a stage when we can really make some bad choices

比如事业上的选择，伴侣上的选择

Career choices, partner choices

过早地生孩子

Having kids early, too early

20来岁的年纪 埋下了各种风险

With all kinds of risks that go on when we are going through that perios of our 20s

所以我会告诉别人，要耐心

So l just tell people, be patient

不要急匆匆

Don't rush it

当心社交媒体的洗脑

Be careful of the social media because

它会让你感觉自己处处落后让你感觉自己永远一事无成让你感觉自己不配拥有良缘

You're lagging behind, you're never gonna amount anything,you’re never gonna have a good relationship

于是(心理暗示)导致坏事成真

And those things just happen

很多事放在30来岁去做比20来岁做会更加成功

And they are often a lot more successful when they happen in their 30s than they are when they happen in their 20s

你知道有一种说法吗

You know what they say

不要在饥饿的时候逛百货商场

Never go grocery shopping when you are hungry

你会买错东西

You grab the wrong things

生活同样是这个道理

And the same is in life

不要在孤独寂寞的时候谈恋爱

Never go into a relationship when you feel lonely

你可能会选错人

You might grab the wrong thing

思考一下吧

Think about it

因为人在绝望时

because when you are desperate

会拼命想要抓住任何东西而不是自己真正需要的东西

You grab anything you want, not what you need

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